A secret society, a club, a group, if you will. You may already be a member and not even know it. There are a few requirements though ladies.

1. You must be a mom

2. You must be married or living with a partner

3. Your husband/partner must be unable to locate the dishwasher under the counter where he places his dirty dishes.

4. Your husband/partner must not be aware of where things are placed in your home, such as, the baby food, diapers, or children’s clothing, even though he’s lived there since they were born.

5. Your husband/partner rarely changes a diaper and considers being left with HIS children, babysitting.

If you can meet or better these requirements moms, then you can join my club. It called the Married Single Moms Club.

MSM Club

We’re moms who are married or living with a partner, but really, in our hearts feel like we are raising our children as single moms. Our husbands/partners are just not that good with young children, they don’t feel comfortable with them or know how to take care of them and simply don’t want to learn. They are waiting, waiting for what exactly? Waiting for the kids to grow up to a stage where they can communicate better, be reasoned with, and enjoy the things dads like to do.

Now careful here, we don’t claim to be in the same position as single moms, obviously that is a much harder situation and kudos to all single moms for all they do on their own. But married moms can feel alone too in the aspect of childcare. Moms can become quite resentful and angry with their partners and it’s never a good thing for your health and well-being to be negative all the time.

The key to joining this club is acceptance. Acceptance of the fact that it is they way it is and that’s ok. A positive attitude is required. Once you come to accept that you cannot change your man and that it will get better when the kids get older you will be a happy successful mom. So let go of the anger and just realize, you are not alone, there is a very large group of moms out there who feel the exact same way. It’s all about accepting the situation, being able to vent about it to friends, but not dwell on negative feelings. Being postive in your life will bring good things to you, it’s the law of attraction. I accepted my married single mom status years ago and I don’t give it a single though anymore, I just take that plate and move it down into the dishwaher without a thought.

Your life is NOW moms, enjoy it, don’t keep waiting for the future. Adopt the MSM Club mentality and live NOW.

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